Free printable · 5 pages · ages 3–8
The Holiday Meltdown Plan
Big gatherings, small people, one plan. For the dinner, the presents and the long day at someone else's house.
- The five steps for a meltdown away from home, on one page
- A 3-minute prep to do in the car, so the day holds fewer surprises
- Six things to say at the family table instead of “give Grandma a hug”
- Four reset cards small enough for a coat pocket
- Free — the PDF is emailed in about a minute
- Plain paper, black and white is fine
- No card, no account, nothing that renews
- Made for ages 3–8
Where should we send it?
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How it works
Three steps, about ten minutes
- 1
Email it to yourself
Enter your address, tick the box, and the PDF link is in your inbox in about a minute. Print it before the first gathering.
- 2
Do page 3 in the car
Who will be there, how long you'll stay, where the quiet spot is, and a secret “I need you” sign. Surprises are what melt.
- 3
Keep the cards in a pocket
When it happens, find the quiet spot, say what you see, hand over a card, wait. Then go back together.
What's inside
Everything in the plan
The plan, holiday edition
Find a quiet spot, say what you see, give the feeling a job, wait, go back together. One page to read in the hallway.
Before we go: the 3-minute prep
What to tell them in the car (who, how long, where the quiet spot is, the secret sign) and four things to pack.
Say this instead: holiday edition
Six swaps for the family table: “Give Grandma a hug” becomes “Hug, high five or wave?”
Holiday reset cards
Four cut-outs for a coat pocket: find a quiet spot, blow out the candles, squeeze your sleeves, count the lights.
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Why this one
More than “keep the routine”
How we made it
Built on research, not guesswork
We read the published work of child psychologists, pediatricians and early-childhood researchers first, then wrote and drew the pages to put it into practice at home.
Who it's for
- Parents taking a child aged 3–8 to a big family gathering
- Grandparents and relatives hosting the grandkids for the holidays
- Families of children who are done after an hour of noise and people
What it puts into practice
- Tell them the plan before you go: who will be there, how long you stay, where the quiet spot is, a secret sign
- Agree a quiet spot at the host's house before anyone needs it
- Let a child choose how to greet: hug, high five or wave
- The same five steps as at home, with a quiet spot in place of the calm corner
- Pack one comfort thing, and leave early if you need to
An educational tool for everyday parenting and teaching, not therapy or medical advice.
Questions
Still curious?
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Free means free
No card, no handling fee, no catch. You get one email with the PDF, then an occasional one about our books, and you can stop those with one click. If the free pages are all you ever wanted from us, that is fine.