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The 5-Minute Meltdown Plan: five illustrated steps for a parent to follow when a child melts down

Free printable · 7 pages · ages 3–8

The 5-Minute Meltdown Plan

What to do when a big feeling hits and you can't think. Five steps for the fridge, the exact words to say, cards a child can follow, and a calm corner you can set up tonight.

  • ✓ The plan poster, the feelings wheel, six “say this instead” swaps
  • ✓ Four reset cards to cut out, a calm corner checklist
  • ✓ A classroom version for teachers, daycare and Sunday school
  • ✓ US Letter PDF. Prints fine in black and white. Free to share.

Same characters as The Calm-Down Kit. We email it to you, so check you type your address right.

What's in the seven pages

  1. Page 2

    The plan

    Five steps on one page: get low and close, say what you see, give the feeling a job, wait, repair after. For the fridge.

  2. Page 3

    The feelings wheel

    Eight feelings with faces your child can point to when the words run out.

  3. Page 4

    Say this instead

    Six swaps for the hardest minute: what to say instead of “calm down”, “you're fine” and “use your words”.

  4. Page 5

    Reset cards

    Four cut-out cards a child who can't read yet can follow: push the wall, blow out 5 candles, squeeze yourself, find 5 things.

  5. Page 6

    A calm corner in 5 minutes

    A five-item checklist. You already own everything on it.

  6. Page 7

    The classroom version

    The same five steps with fewer words, for teachers, daycare and Sunday school.

Pass it on. Forward the email to another parent, a grandparent or your child's teacher; the pack is free for everyone. Want the whole calm-down corner? The Calm-Down Kit adds 24 calm-down cards, four breathing exercises, feeling posters and the words to say in the moment.